My Mom, Marian Nicholson, a Week Before Her 90th Birthday, Family Outing to Siesta Key Beach. Photo by Ellen Maher.
Clouds
Nearly ninety, Mom still liked to come
to Sunday dinner at our home.
After dinner, we’d watch an old movie,
Mom’s cat Kitzey stretched out by her knee.
Photo by Deric Yu from Unsplash
We’d call up relatives and have a chat
as she sat stroking her purring cat.
Our dog Clifford wanted petting, too…
That was something Mom was happy to do.
Photo by Shridhar Dixit.
Mom always enjoyed long country drives.
She would smile, her eyes coming alive,
watching egrets and cranes or horses and cows,
but most of all, she loved looking at clouds.
“Those clouds look like a fawn and a deer.
That one’s a man with a long white beard.”
Photo by Heyzeus Lozoya from Unsplash.
She never grew tired of seeing the sky of blue
and clouds with sunlight shining through.
I think she imagined Heaven to be in that space,
and she was going soon to that wonderful place.
“Isn’t it beautiful?” she’d always say,
and knowing she was happy made my day.
Photo by wuttichai from Adobe Stock Photos
When we were kids, Mom shared the charms
of an idyllic childhood on her family’s farm.
Now the farmers’ market was our place to go
to buy carrots to feed the horses and goats.
Mom visited the peacocks, roosters and hens,
pigs in the barn and roosters in their pens.
We bought pumpkins and chrysanthemums,
horehound, lemon drops, and Teaberry gum,
but no trip to the market would be complete
without an ice cream cone for a treat.
So many flavors, Mom could always find
a flavor that was one of her favorite kinds.
Mom loved her family, and nearly every day,
we talked about family members far away.
One day I was visiting Mom; she was resting in bed.
“You’ve been a good daughter to me,” she said.
Though home was now an independent living,
she was still my mom, still caring and giving.
For her, things were not how they used to be,
but she always took an interest in me,
Marian Nicholson on Her 90th Birthday. Photo by Cheryl Batavia
Copyright© 2019 by Cheryl Batavia Reprinted from Life in Inspiring Places by Cheryl Batavia
My Mom, Marian Nicholson (1924-2015) always encouraged me in a love of nature, art, and poetry. At the age of forty-five she fulfilled a lifelong dream and graduated from nursing school. We were very proud of Mom. As she grew older, my sister and I increasingly looked out for her. The last thirteen years of her life, she lived near me and we did a lot of things together. This poem is about the last four years of Mom’s life, when she was in an independent living center suffering from Alzheimer’s Disease. It was a sad time, but it gave us both pleasure to spend a great deal of time together.
I celebrate Women’s History Month by posting this poem in honor of my mother.
Wow, this just bring many emotions to me. Very beautifully penned dear Cheryl. She looks beautiful ❤️❤️ Mom is always special! Isn’t?
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Thank you, Preethes, for your kind response to the poem. Glad you enjoyed the poem. Yes, our Mom is always special to us! ❤ Have a great day!
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This is such a beautiful post Cheryl. She was beautiful and raised you well💖🙏
We too were blessed to have had parents like ours 🙏🙏
Stay blessed 😊🤗
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Thank you, Ashok, for your uplifting comment. ❤ You had remarkable parents! What a difference it makes to have supportive parents! 🙂 All the best!
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Pleasure Cheryl. Stay blessed 😊💖
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My best wishes to you and your family. Live together, support each other when they need your help. Your mother is always with you. I’m dedicating my poem based on clouds to her…
“ Light as the clouds ”
Make yourself light as the clouds-
try to fly like them,
try to run like them,
try to be painted in the colours like them.❤️❤️
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Thank you, Loku, for this lovely poem! I like it very much. It expresses the attitude my mother had about life. ❤
Take care, Loku!
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You see, how our thoughts connects with eachother, and we never met in the real life. Now, I feel a sense of respect for my words.
Take care.
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Our words do deserve our respect…very astute comment, Loku!
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This is a beautiful poem full of love, Cheryl. I am so pleased that your mom still found value in life at the end of her days. It must have been heartbreaking to witness her struggle with Alzheimers but at least now she is in a better place. I’m sure she would smile to hear this lovely poem! ❤️
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Thank you so much, Ingrid. Your kind words mean a lot to me! ❤ Have a wonderful day!
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Dear Cheryl,
You have honored your very special mother beautifully. Everything you told us about her is showing her as a wonderful mother and you as a loving daughter. It is greatly reassuring to look back on your life together and have no regrets. The poem resonates with me, not only because I love to watch the shapes of the clouds too, but also because it inspires me to lead, a life well spent just like your mother did.
Thank you for the beautiful pictures of animals!!
When you look at the clouds now, Cheryl, give them a message to take away to your mother, just like the poet wrote in his famous poem “Clouds”, You will find it in the first post of my Literary Series
Thank you, Cheryl, for such a lovely start to my day.
Joanna
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Joanna, Thank you for your beautiful and meaningful comment. It is my pleasure to write about my mother, who loved animals. I appreciate photographers so much, especially wildlife photographers. Glad you enjoyed the photos.
I will check out your literary series and look forward to reading “Clouds.” ❤ All the best!
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Heart warming poem. She looked gorgeous. The sky is mesmerising I agree with your mother. So much it has hidden. The clouds of different shapes and a fun game to figure out the similar objects of the clouds shape. Love the poem.
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Kritika, I so appreciate your kind and thoughtful comment! I agree with you that the sky is “mesmerizing!” We are enjoying beautiful spring weather here…sunny, blue sky with fluffy white clouds and pleasant breezes. I will have to take a walk. I hope you are doing well and having a joyful day! ❤
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That is amazing. Long walks and morning sun rays have healing effect, which I feel everyday. Happy Spring Cheryl. Enjoy the weather. (Heart)
I am doing good. Thank you 🙂 🙂 (hugs)
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So touching Cheryl! You’re so fortunate having tended to your mother in her last years, to your heart’s content. Mine had just slipped away in sleep at the age of just sixty two, ten years ago. The pain of loosing her still aches my heart.
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Thank you Mousumi, for sharing your thoughts. It was a privilege to spend those years with my mother, who had lived far away for much of my adult life. I am truly sorry that you lost your mother so young. Nothing can take the place of our mothers. ❤ All the best!
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You are absolutely right and I came to realize the value of mother when I became one myself!❤
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I agree that becoming a mother makes you more fully appreciate your own mother. How many children do you have?
I was just thinking about my children, aged 30-51, who live far away. I am going to put together some books of poems for them and would like to do some paintings to send them at Christmas as a keepsake. Maybe we will be able to get together again as soon as the pandemic is over. For the time being, I am glad for emails and telephones. ❤
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Such a beautiful poem and you were blessed with great memories with your mom. A beautiful lady who looked great. Alzheimer’s is such a thief.
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Thank you, Pene, for your kind response. Means a lot to me. ❤ Have a marvelous day!
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Cheryl, I’m moved deeply by this wonderful tribute to your mother, a woman at the core of your life for so many years. The love between you shines through, the joy together the most precious of gifts. Your outings seem like childhood dream days, the market place filled with colour and it’s wonderful how you list the items, ending up with choosing favourite ice cream for the cones! You’ve made the everyday so special and were lucky enough to recognise the importance of all these moments, absorbing them into your being, ready to draw upon in later years. Your mother seems to radiate happiness and what a wonderful photo of her on the beach and later on her 90th birthday! Glamorous and beautiful! The last years must have been tough for you all but I feel she would have known all the love and care you gave her, all from your heart and in that giving receiving so much yourself. Bless you for this wonderful post, a perfect one for Women’s History Month! Xx
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Everything you have said about the time I spent with my mother is so true, Annika! I feel very fortunate. Thank you so much for such a beautiful comment! It is deeply appreciated. ❤ Have a wonderful day!
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A wonderful tribute for a wonderful Mom… Beautifully presented, and a thoroughly delightful read Cheryl, thank you far sharing, I could a family circle of love… 😀😍💛
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Thank you so much, Ivor, for your lovely comment. ❤ I am so happy that you enjoyed the poem! It is my pleasure to write about the time I was able to spend with my mother. Wishing you all the best!
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An overall superb article Cheryl.. 😊💛
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This was a glowing tribute to your mother, Cheryl. She looked so graceful. You must have been so glad to spend the last few years with her, doing things together. Those moments are absolutely precious. She exudes royalty in the pic you clicked on her 90 th birthday ❤️
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Thank you for your kind words, Radhika! My mother lived far away for most of my adult life, and spending those last few years with her was truly a gift! My mother grew up the youngest child and the only girl with four older brothers and always had the sense that she was a princess! She used to say that she was, “a child of the King!” (meaning God) It was amusing how much she enjoyed wearing her birthday tiara. Sometimes a little silliness makes us all happy! ❤ I hope all is well with you and your family.
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That’s wonderful Cheryl. I absolutely agree with you. When you look back at life, it’s those fun filled silly moments together, that stay on in the heart. 😊❤️
Yes, we are all fine. Thanks so much for asking. Enjoy your day 😊
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What a good mother, Cheryl . I am not surprised you are a poet.
Love ❤
Michel
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Thank you so much, Michel, for your kind words. I was very fortunate to have those years with my mother. ❤ I hope that you and Janine are happy and doing well.
Love ❤
Cheryl
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Your mom deserved this beautiful tribute, Cheryl.
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I feel so good about your mom. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful poem 😊
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Thank you, KK, for your kind response. 🙂 It is my pleasure to write about my mother. ❤ Have a joyous day!
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Our Mothers. Our her-story.
Their legacy lives on and your tribute shines brightly.
Always remember.
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Thank you, Laura. Your kind words are very much appreciated. I think our parents’ example that lives on after they are gone is very helpful as we live our lives. I will always remember. ❤ Wishing you health and happiness.
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Not only a wonderful tribute to your mother, you had me smiling throughout the journey. Cheers to the care you and your sister did in her closing years.
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Thank you, Frank, for your kind comment! Our family lived far apart for most of my adult life. The years I got to spend with my mother were a gift. It makes my day that the poem made you smile. ❤
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Beautiful poem laced with wonderful memories and photos. Very moving. It’s a shame we have to lose them, but we will always remember them, fondly in your Mom’s case.
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David, thank you so much for your kind response. It makes me happy that you enjoyed the poem! Parents are truly unforgettable! ❤ Have a great day!
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Heart touching poem! She’s pretty, full of smiles. I’m happy to know she enjoyed her last years with you. You’re fortunate to have these loving memories. ❤
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Thank you so much for your kind and empathetic comment, Anisha! ❤ I feel very fortunate to have had those years with my mother, and I cherish the memories. 🙂 All the best!
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Very touching poem Cheryl!❤
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Thank you so much, Nawaz, for your kind response. ❤ Means a lot to me. Wishing you success and happiness!
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This beautiful poem brought tears to my eyes. Your mom set a good example seeing magic in the sky and beauty in so many moments. My mom was a lot like that, and I wish I’d appreciated her more before she went to heaven at the age of 82. Now, I am more interested in shapes I see in the clouds and the beauty in birds singing, so I’m learning. 🙂 I’m very glad you had these wonderful times with your mom.
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Thank you, JoAnna, for sharing your thoughts. ❤ I am happy that you enjoyed the poem. The example our parents set for us lives on after they are gone and inspires us. Retirement is a great opportunity to live in the moment and to see the beauty in the world around us. I always enjoy your posts. You live in a beautiful area with much to appreciate. Have a great day! 🙂
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🙂 ❤
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Even before I read your poem, what struck me is that your mom has such a beautiful smile, so plain and simple and warm 💖
And it is so evident that she influenced you in matters of love towards Nature and poetry. Understandably the last few years would have been very challenging, for you, as you strived to give back all the memories which were loved by her and yet were difficult for her to retain. But the day she said that you have been a good daughter, didn’t it balance out most of the hard work you had to do? The knowledge that you had truely paid your mom back for the love she had given? I think that is the biggest accomplishment for a child, and you must have felt very contended indeed!
I love you poems as always Cheryl 💖 but even more than that i love the simple joys of life you have got from her and given back to her in turn – and which you have so beautifully captured in those simple and beautiful lines. I always think a person who can enjoy shapes in clouds is a very happy person.
And I too always used to get an ice cream whenever I went to the market with mom 🙂
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Deb, I always treasure your comments. Thank you for your kindness and for sharing your reflections. I deeply appreciate what you have written and the time you took to write it!
Time spent with my Mother was a gift to me, especially since we had lived far apart for much of my adult life. I hope the pandemic is soon over so that you will be able to travel and spend more time with your family. ❤
Ice cream is a great treat to share with someone you care about, especially on a warm day! Best wishes to you and your family!
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Thank you Cheryl and hopefully in a months time I should be visiting them, with all the precautions.
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Cheryl, this is a profoundly personal and moving tribute to you mother. I am moved beyond my ability to express.
Yours,
David
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Thank you so much, David, for your heartfelt and meaningful comment. It means a lot to me! ❤ All the best!
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I hope you are feeling well too, Cheryl. You’re in my thoughts.
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Thank you, David. I am doing pretty well.
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Wonderful dedication to your mother, she looks so beautiful and admire her love for clouds. You reminded me my mother she passed away at 58 due to liver disease I miss her so much. Be happy with your mother.
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Thank you, Subbashini, for your kind words. ❤ My mother lived for six months after the pictures were taken. I am so sorry that you lost your mother so young. I wish you comfort and peace. The future is our children. I still remember the lovely rose your daughter painted. ❤ Take care!
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What a wonderful tribute to your mother Cheyrl. What a wonderful and full life she lived and I admire her getting her nursing degree and desire to keep learning and growing. He gift of poetry, outdoors, love of her kids lives clearly on in you!
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Thank you, Cindy, for your lovely remarks. ❤ I feel very fortunate that I was retired and got to spend so much quality time with my Mom. I have many wonderful memories of her. As I grow older, I remember her experiences and example at each stage of her life, and that is helpful and meaningful to me.
All the best, Cindy. Take care of yourself! 🙂
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You’re so welcome and what a special gift to have those memories Cheryl!!!~!
I will and you too! 💖
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such a loving tribute to a very special lady … she dresses smartly and looks so regal!
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Thank you, Kate, for your kind comment. ❤ Glad you enjoyed the post. Mom was quite a "clothes horse" up until the last few years. 🙂 Take care!
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so was mine … I didn’t inherit that trait 🙂
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What a precious beautiful post!! Your poem touched me deeply and my heart was smiling – such treasured memories of you and your mom together, she is truly amazing and so are you.
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Pragalba, Thank you for your kind and generous response! I am pleased that you found the poem meaningful. I do treasure those years spent with my mother, especially since we lived far apart much of my adult life.
Have a wonderful day! ❤ ❤ ❤
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You are very welcome. I feel blessed that I get to witness these treasures.
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Beautiful ❤️🥰. Thank you for sharing.
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I am glad you enjoyed the poem, JR. It is my pleasure to write about my mother. Your kind comment is very much appreciated! ❤ All the best!
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A lovely tribute!
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Thank you so much for your kind comment. ❤ I'm glad you enjoyed the post. Have a great day!
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Cheryl, what a beautiful tribute to your beautiful mom! She will always be in your heart! ❤️
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Eugenia, thank you for such kind words. ❤ My mother will surely always be in my heart. Means a lot to me that you liked the poem. I hope all is well with you. 🙂
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What a beautiful piece, Cheryl. It’s made me feel quite teary! I’m very close to my mum and it’s lovely to be able to celebrate wonderful parents. I love the photo of her on the beach – she sounds like an amazing woman with a generous spirit and kind heart who loved you dearly 🌹 xx
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Thank you, Caz, for your heartfelt response. ❤ I am glad you liked the poem! My mom was a very caring parent who always encouraged her children. Spend as much quality time with your mum as you can. You will never regret it! 🙂 All the best!
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This is a very lovely poem and a beautiful tribute to a very special woman! Love it Cheryl. ♥️ Your mother’s beautiful and what a happy life she had. 💕
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Misae, your kind response is deeply appreciated. ❤ Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am so happy that you enjoyed the poem. Have a great weekend!
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Thank you ♥️
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Beautiful tribute! ❤️ My grandma past away two years ago. She had Alzheimer’s disease also! 🤍 BTW, I love Siesta Key Beach especially the powder like sand!
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Ariela, sorry you lost your grandma. ❤ I hope they find a cure for Alzheimer's disease. I visited Siesta Key pretty frequently when I lived in Sarasota. It is a lovely beach! ❤ Have a great week!
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U too!
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A beautiful poem, Cheryl! Your Mum looks lovely! Stay blessed ❤️🌹🙏😊
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Thank you, Diana, for your kind response. ❤ It means a lot to me that you liked the poem. 🙂
Enjoy the week ahead!
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This is such a beautiful heartfelt tribute to your mother! I love all the things you did together. So nice to have had her around all those years. i know first hand the ravages of Alzheimer’s. It is so sad to see them lose touch!
Great memories!
dwight
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Thank you, Dwight, for your lovely comment. ❤ Glad you liked the poem. I hope we soon have a cure for Alzheimer's. All the best!
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You are welcome~!
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A fabulous tribute to your mom!
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Thank you so much, Chris! ❤ It makes me happy that you enjoyed the poem. Have a great week!
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You too, Cheryl 🙂
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Very emotional. And your mother is so beautiful.
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Thank you, Veena, for your kind response. ❤ I appreciate your reading and commenting. Have a great week!
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How beautiful and endearing is this! ❤❤
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Thank you, Ramya, for your kind response. ❤ So glad you liked the poem. 🙂 All the best!
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A really heart warming tribute to your mom, Cheryl! She must be watching from heaven and sending you blessings all-along! This piece brings memories to each reader!
Your mom is beautiful and your pets too! 🌸
Stay blessed! ❤️
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Dishita, thank you for your kind words. I am so happy that you found it relatable. Your lovely comment is very much appreciated. ❤ All the best!
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What a lovely post and such beautiful memories of your beloved mom ❤ May you always find joy when you reminisce on the many lovely moments you shared together
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Thank you, Henrietta, for your kind comment and good wishes! ❤ Makes me happy that you like the poem. ❤
All the best!
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What a beautiful post!
Clifford looks a little like the dog I walked for six years.
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Thank you so much, Lawrence, for your kind response. ❤ Glad you enjoyed the poem! Have a great weekend!
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Such precious memories you are making with your mom…parents are the most wonderful people in the world. ♡
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I have wonderful memories of spending time with my mother. She lived about six months after the photos were taken. You will never regret spending quality time with your family. ❤ Thank you so much, Shelly, for sharing your kind response! ❤ Have a great day!
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Me too, I spend as much time with my parents and family as I can. Sorry for your loss Cheryl ❤ Your mom was beautiful. You too enjoy your day.
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Also such wonderful pictures and beautiful poem…somehow I missed most of the poem when I read it the first time. That is a wonderful picturesque poem.❤
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Thank you, Shelly! So glad you liked the poem. ❤
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Beautiful poem
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Thank you for your kind comment. ❤ Glad you enjoyed the poem. Have a great week!
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You too
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The love in this poem between you and your mother is so clearly evident. She appreciated life, all the wonderful things that exist when we keep our eyes and hearts open to them.
Thank you for sharing. And thank you for the encouragement to spend time with our loved ones in whatever ways we can. It is difficult not to be able to do so in person for many around the world, but we can let them know we love them. ❤
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Thank you, Hamish, for your beautiful response. ❤ Have a great week!
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Your mom looks very beautiful and healthy Cheryl. She is really very lucky to have daughter like you. What an amazing lines you have written in your poem for your mom, full of love and memories. Thanks for sharing 😊.
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Aman, thank you for your beautiful response. It means a lot to me that you liked the poem. ❤ All the best!
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You are most welcome Cheryl 😊.
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Your Mom looks happy and stunning. My best girlfriends mom has Alzheimers and she is the happiest she has ever been–no more problems. Tho she doesn’t remember anyone–even her daughter. Perhaps it’s harder on the family than the one with Alzheimers? I have no conclusions as yet….
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Thank you, Genie. I know my mother enjoyed the times we spent together, and she did know everyone. She was aware that she had memory problems, which caused her some distress.
All the best to your friend and her mother! ❤ Her experience sounds a lot like that of my late husband's grandmother who lived to be 102. She didn't know who anyone was, but she was always happy to see us and was a pleasure to visit. Our children used to perform gymnastics for her when we visited her in the nursing home.
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