Netting in Lemon Bay, Reblog

Left to Right: Gulf of Mexico, Manasota Key, Lemon Bay. Photo by Jin from Adobe Stock

Netting in Lemon Bay

For several hours that morning, in blazing sun,

our group waded in the knee-deep muck

of Lemon Bay, netting sea creatures

and collecting them in pails. Then we gathered

on shore with the naturalist to observe and

discuss the animals we had found:

juvenile flounder, shrimp, tiny crabs…

I left a bit early because I had a lunch date

with a man who lived nearby.

We had been communicating on Plenty of Fish

and were meeting for the first time.

Woops! There were no showers at the park!

I cleaned up the best I could with a wet towel.

Still sweaty on top and muddy on the bottom,

I went to meet my date at Chili’s.

We met in the parking lot with a hug

and a kiss on the cheek, not my usual handshake.

We talked for two hours over chicken fajitas.

Time flew by! I felt I had known him forever!

…That’s how I met my soul mate!

Reprinted from Life in Inspiring Places


Copyright© 2019 by Cheryl Batavia


Robert and I have been together for eleven very happy years since that meeting at Chili’s. I was sixty-five, and he was sixty-six when we met. My husband had been dead for over twelve years before I started dating, and I had nearly given up on ever finding a soul mate… someone with whom I have so much in common!

Favorite Photos

Flowers from Robert and Robert’s hat on my dining table soon after we met.

Favorite Photos

Some photos retain their magic,

their power to evoke memories

and affections awakened

some time ago.

Robert, I never thought

I would love a man

who wore his hat indoors

or went to bed with his socks on.

This photo reminds me

how quickly I changed my mind

when I met you!

Maybe it was the flowers…

and a thousand other things!

I’ll love you always.


Copyright © 2026 by Cheryl Batavia

This photo was taken in 2014. The poem was one of the first written for Robert and made into a card.