A retired teacher and mother of three adult children, I live on the Gulf Coast of Florida with my soulmate, Robert. Leisure activities include discussing current events with Robert, watching movies, and playing Scrbble. Robert usually wins!
I also enjoy going to the beach and taking road trips with my daughters. One of our favorite pastimes is observing the wonderful wildlife that surrounds us.
I keep busy writing poetry, and I would be delighted if you visited my website!
Robert will be 77 on September 20, 2025. I wanted to share Robert’s homemade birthday card with you. Though we are going through some challenges, health-wise and otherwise, we are OK and expect to come out alright. I am working on a lot of projects.
When life slows down again, I hope to be more active on the blog. I am looking forward to that day! 💕🌈 💕 I miss you!
For the last couple of months, I have been experiencing heart symptoms again. Last week, I ended up in the hospital for an emergency angioplasty for a blocked stent in my heart. I was in the hospital for a couple of days and am recovering at home. After all of our recent surgeries, both Robert and I are OK, but quite tired.
Timeless Insightsinto Human Nature & Relationships
Author, Rosaliene Bacchus was a young, idealistic Guyanese nun for seven years during the tumultuous 1970s and early 1980s in Guyana. Her novel, The Twisted Circle, provides vivid insights into the politics and corruption of both the Roman Catholic Church and the Guyanese government of that period. Nuns and priests are portrayed as human beings with human desires, ambitions, and flaws.
The protagonist, Barbara, a young Black Guyanese nun, suffers sexual harassment from both priests and political figures. Her antagonist, Francis, a racist White American nun who is in love with a priest, considers herself superior to Barbara. She jealously attacks Barbara, publicly accusing her of flirting with men. Francis also feels that she deserves a promotion received by Barbara and tries to sabotage Barbara by any devious means possible. The inclusion of numerous excerpts from Francis’s diary enhances the story of the conflict between these two characters.
Several students in the school, where Barbara and Francis are teachers, suffer sexual assaults from priests. One young boy becomes an angry troublemaker. A promising young girl, attacked by a priest, is forced to quit school because of her pregnancy. A talented and charismatic gay student is found dead shortly before his high school graduation.
Rosaliene Bacchus also provides background about Guyana’s colonial past and how it continues to create problems for the newly independent nation. Conflicts exist among the Black citizens who came as slaves, Indians who came as indentured servants, three native American tribes, and assorted Europeans. There are also numerous people of mixed races.
At the time when the story takes place, many families in rural areas live in squalid housing, without enough to eat, without adequate medical care, and with limited educational opportunities. The Church steps in to help. Teachers, despite limited resources, do their best to help their students. Many nuns and priests, though probably initially well-intentioned, are at the mercy of their human desires and ambitions.
The Twisted Circle is a window on a fascinating time and place. It provides timeless insights into human nature and relationships.
*I read The Twisted Circle yesterday, all in one day. It would have been hard to put down!
Rosaliene Bacchus blogs at <rosalienebacchus@yahoo.com>
Take a moment to appreciate those who died in defense of your country. Think about the values they were defending. Support democracy, and fight to preserve the rights andfreedoms promised to you in the Constitution.
Here, on the SW Florida Gulf Coast, the temperatures are rising, and grass is parched and brown. Yesterday, we got several brief thunder showers, our first hints of welcome summer rains. Today, the sky is overcast, promising more rain. We need it!
Happy summer! A little early for our friends in other locales, but heartfelt!
(Cheryl Batavia’s daughters, Ellen and Katey, meet Skipper, the bottle-nosed dolphin, and his trainer.)
getting to know all about you.Getting to like you,
(belly rub)
getting to hope you like me!You are precisely my cup of tea!
(It’s not polite to stick out your tongue.)
Getting to know you. Suddenly, I’m bright and breezybecause of all the beautiful new thingsI’m learning about you!Getting to know you,knowing we know how to play!Getting to know you.
(Ellen playing the piano, Skipper singing!)
Things I’m learning about you, Day by Day!
(Katey playing the piano, Skipper singing!)
Cuddle Up a Little Closer
Cuddle up a little closer, Lovey mine!Cuddle up and be my little clinging vine!I like to feel your cheeks so rosy.I like to make you comfy, cozy,I love you, I love you so muchfrom your head down to your toesies, Lovey mine!
Photos taken by a Theater of the Sea photographer. Please give credit if you use them.
This is a highlight of the vacation my daughters and I planned together. Due to a last minute emergency, I was unable to go on the trip. These photos make me feel like I was there.
Theater of the Sea in Islamorada, FL has various animals, many of them rescue animals, on display. There are sea turtles, rays, seals, and other animals to observe or encounter.
I hope you enjoy the vintage music. I also considered “Splish Splash!” by Bobby Darren. It didn’t quite fit, but it was fun!
On Saturday, 4/19/25, around 800 separate demonstrations took place.It was called 5051 because there were protests in cities in all 50 states in the US and the District of Columbia. There were also some demonstrations internationally.
Photo by Barbara Burgess from Unsplash.
I Saw Democracy Today
I may not see precisely eye-to-eye
with a few of the protest signs, banners, and chants…
But I saw democracy today…
People of all ages, ethnicities, walks of life, and points of view
marching together,
taking a stand against oppression, lawlessness, and injustice.
POTUS hates dissent; It takes courage to resist!
I saw democracy today!
*The following poems are composed of quotes from 5051 protest signs, banners, and chants.
Photo by Barbara Burgess from Unsplash
Democracy vs. Dictatorship
Horns honking in Alabama…
Honk if You Want Democracy!
Democracy, Not Oligarchy!
Democracy, Not Fascism!
Hands Off Canada!
Resist Dictatorship!
No Trump! No KKK! No Fascist USA!
RESIST!
No More Tariffs! No Kings!
No Kings! No Fear!
Resist Dictatatorship!
Donald Trump Will Not Save You!
Photo by Morgan Cardarec from Unsplash.
Dump Trump!
Hey, Hey! Ho, Ho!
Donald Trump has got to go!
A sign in New York City observes:
The Emperor Has No Clothes!
Virginia’s flag, a hero’s foot on the
fallen dictator’s chest, proclaims:
Sic Semper Tyrannis!
Thus Ever to Tyrants!
Get Rid of Citizens United!
Democracy is Not For Sale!
Hate Won’t Make America Great!
Deport POTUS!
Photo by Tony Wiek from Unsplash
Constitution
A New York City protester,
dressed in a dinosaur suit, carries a sign:
Separation of Powers Must Not Go Extinct!
Costumed as Lady Liberty, no sign needed,
a woman marches in Chicago!
Protect the Constitution!
Honk If You Love Free Speech!
Habeas Corpus!
Due Process for All!
Hands Off DEI!
Diversity! Equality! Inclusion!
The Rule of Law is Under Attack!
We the People Resist!
Photo by Barbara Burgess from Unsplash
Economic Justice
Economic Justice is Social Justice!
A sign in Salt Lake City: Tax the Rich!
End Cuts to Medical Services!
We Love USAID!
Hands Off Social Security!
Veterans Against Trump!
Hands Off the VA!
No Musk Rat! No DOGE!
Gulf of Mexico, Panama Beach, Florida. Photo by Craig Cameron from Unsplash
Environment
We Stand for Mother Earth!
Oceans Are Rising, and So Are We!
Honk to Save National Parks!
Save Our Parks!
Off Fossil Fuels! Gulf of Mexico!
Climate Justice!
Protesters singing in unison:
This Land was Made for You and Me!
Photo by Alexy Demidov from Unsplash
Immigration
Bring Them Home!
Due Process!
Abolish ICE!
Ethnic Cleansing…We Say No!
DC Wants to Free Kilmar!
Bring Him Back!
Stop the Disappearings!
Who Will Be Next?
Freedom Tower in Miami, Florida, where, over fifty years ago, Cuban refugees came to begin the process of becoming US citizens. Freedom Tower is the classic golden tower surrounded by modern high-rises. Photo by Following NYC from Pexels.
Katey Batavia and Ellen Maher paused en route to their destination yesterday. Selfie by Katey.
Personal Note
On the day before my daughters were scheduled to arrive, Robert had emergency open-heart surgery for aortic dissection. This uncommon condition occurs without warning, has a very high mortality rate, and can destroy organs such as the brain, kidneys, and heart. We got to the emergency room within about fifteen minutes of his chest pain, and Robert was taken by helicopter to the waiting operating room in Sarasota.
Robert survived the surgery, and there are no signs of organ damage. Yesterday, he had surgery to repair leads and replace the battery in his pacemaker. Today, he was moved out of the ICU and is expected to be discharged on Friday. His daughter will arrive on Thursday and stay for a few days. My daughters will arrive on Thursday and leave on Saturday.
Yes, I missed my trip. It was too late to cancel our reservations, and my daughters are enjoying the Everglades and the Keys. They are emailing photos, which I will share.
I am very happy and grateful today for Robert’s positive outcomes. I am enjoying spending time with my daughters. They were here before, and will be here after their trip.
This post was drafted in the hospital surgical lounge while awaiting the results of Robert’s surgeries, and I am finishing it as I wait for Robert to return home.
I expect to be sporadic on WordPress for a while, but my fellow bloggers are always in my thoughts! 💕
My two daughters, Ellen and Katey, live in Dallas. We have missed our traditional yearly road trip for the last two years due to my illness. This year, we are taking the long-awaited trip to the southern part of Everglades National Park. I am hoping to see the wild flamingos that mysteriously settled there twenty years ago. Some people say they came from South America.
Flamingos had not lived in the wild in Florida for the previous one hundred and fifty years. I have dreamed of seeing these wild flamingos since I first heard about them . Maybe it will happen!
Before we leave, at the request of my younger daughter Katey, we will have an Easter egg hunt. I am filling plastic eggs with small chocolate bunnies, jelly beans, and some goofy little surprises. I will hide hide the eggs in the yard for Katey and Ellen to find. This is the first Easter I have spent with my daughters for many years, and I am looking forward to it!
Katey has also asked me to get a favorite ice cream that is not available in Texas. It is cherry ice cream with chococolate-covered cherry hearts mixed in. We will try to eat small portions!
My daughters are going kayaking. We are taking two boat tours, one in the Gulf of Mexico, and one in the back country.
Then, we are going to the Florida Keys to swim with the dolphins at Theater of the Sea. There are many other marine animals there, including sea turtles, seals, sharks, and rays.
We plan to eat some authentic Cuban food, locally grown tropical fruit, and some famous Key Lime pie. I will post photos and tell you all about our adventures when we return.
I will be on break from April 15-30, 2025.
Katey, Ellen, and Cheryl on our road trip several years ago.