Saying Goodbye to Our Grandparents

(Thirty Years Ago)

Celebrating the lives of our grandparents, whose positive influence has continued throughout our lives and in the lives of everyone who loved them. Photo by Jamie Street from Unsplash

Saying Goodbye to Our Grandparents

(Thirty Years Ago)

High on a hill, in a historic graveyard

overlooking a quaint Pennsylvania town,

we went to say our final goodbyes

to our grandmother.

After the crowd had dispersed,

my brother, sister, and I lingered.

We each threw a handful of earth

into the open grave.

There was something satisfying about doing that.

My grandmother had always loved growing things

in that Pennsylvania earth; she had placed a headstone

years before, planning to join my grandfather here.

We stood for a few moments in silence

as the cemetery worker waited to fill the grave.

Our grandparents were gone.

It was the end of an era.

When I think of my grandparents today,

in my mind’s eye, I can see the graveyard

high on a hill, and a pink granite headstone

engraved with a heart and both of their names.


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

Cactus-Tailed Cat

Photo by Eve Ellen Maher


Cactus-Tailed Cat


Copyright © 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

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Soft cover and Kindle editions

Earthly Days

Cactus-Tailed Cat” is one of the poems that will be appearing in Earthly Days. It was first published on this blog in 2020. In that photo, the cat had a tail made of a cucumber!

Here is the poem as it appears in Earthly Days with a new photo by my daughter, Eve Ellen Maher, the cat’s current owner. Ellen is an ordained chaplain, following in her grandfather’s footsteps. The cat now has a real cactus tail.

Grandparents…Was it Love?

Vintage Phonograph. Grandma was a “flapper” with bobbed hair and rolled-down hose, and she loved to dance! I don’t know how my grandparents met, but it might well have been at a dance. Maybe they listened to music on a phonograph like this. Photo by Sudhith Xavier from Unsplash.

Grandpa, born about 1898, worked in steel mills all around Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania as a young man. He bought an early car and travelled to Chicago to learn how to maintain it. There were no repair shops then. In a time when most people didn’t go to school beyond the eighth grade, Grandpa had graduated from high school. He loved to read and continued to educate himself throughout his life.

My grandmother, about ten years younger than Grandpa, was only able to attend school through second grade because she had to take care of her younger sisters while her single mother worked. At twelve years of age, she went to work as a hotel maid to help support her family. In her teens, she worked as a lifeguard. During her brief time in school, she had learned to read, and, like Grandpa, she continued to educate herself as long as she lived.


Grandparents…Was it Love?

Sweethearts,

Roaring Twenties.

Flapper, aged seventeen,

ladies’ man, aged twenty-seven,

were wed.

Wild days…

Prohibition…

brewing beer, making wine…

before they got religion and

reformed!

Hard times…

Great Depression…

working to raise two sons.

Hard work, sheer determination,

true grit!

Grandma:

gardener, seamstress,

home nurse, cleaning lady,

restaurant cook, Sunday School

teacher.

Success,

prosperity,

respectability…

Grandpa in construction bussiness…

Good times!

Empty Nest.

On the dresser,

just two photos displayed…

Methodist preacher, state trooper…

their sons!

Big dreams!

My grandparents,

always flipping houses,

painting, papering, plastering…

Moving!

Dream house!

Grandma, Grandpa…

joint effort, as always,

rehabbing Grandma’s childhood home.

Last house!

Grandkids

spending time there

made childhood memories:

fresh eggs, strawberries, handmade clothes,

laughter!

Retired.

Grandfathering,

fishing, golfing, dart games,

classes, reading, enjoying life…

Happy days!

Married

fifty-some years.

Did they love each other?

Public displays of affection…

not seen.

Grandpa,

when diagnosed

with Parkinson’s Disease,

patiently taught Grandma to drive.

That’s love!

Grandma,

when Grandpa died,

placed a carved-heart headstone,

pink granite with both of their names.

That’s love!

Grandma

had a business.

Gift shops carried her handmade

Raggedy Anne and Andy dolls.

Lovely!

Grandma,

for twenty years,

lived to bring others joy,

hoping to join Grandpa one day.

That’s love!


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

I Am the Moment

Repost of a Poem that will appear in Earthly Days

Sea turtle hatchling racing to the safety of the ocean. Photo by Christopher Farrugia from Unsplash.


I Am the Moment

I am that flash of green as the sun goes down.

I am the crest of a wave before it breaks on the shore,

a lightning bolt that ushers in a clap of thunder.

I am the moment of a butterfly’s first flight,

the rush of sea turtle hatchlings to the safety of the sea.

I am the moment when lovers’ eyes first meet.

I am that half-forgotten melody that lingers in your mind,

a half-remembered dream that eludes you when you wake.

I am that pang of regret for a kind word left unspoken.

I am the blink of an eye, the shadow of a smile.

I am that rare, pivotal moment when opportunity knocks.

I am the moment…and then I am gone!

Sea turtle hatchlings. Photo by Ricardo Braham from Unsplash.


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Earthly Days Update

Earthly Days, is a collection of poems chosen from my blog posts over the last three-and-half years. My deep appreciation goes out to those who have posted reviews thus far. Watch for future reviews from your fellow bloggers. Check out their websites for outstanding content. If you missed their reviews of Earthly Days, you can find them at the URLs below.

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gulfcoastpoet.com/2023/09/02/earthly-days-3/

Best Wishes from Mountain Girl to Delta Boy!

Cotton Field. Photo by Trisha Downing from Unsplash

Cornfield. Photo by Lucas van Oort from Unsplash


Our childhood memories of countrysides,

Victorian homes with yards where we once played.

Your life among the cotton fields so wide,

my life where corn grew tall and cattle grazed.

Like Tarzan, you were skilled at throwing knives,

while I was catching tadpoles, climbing trees.

Deploying fireworks, you blew up cow pies,

while I stepped barefoot onto honeybees!

Pursuing education on our terms,

you excelled at math; I wrote poetry.

You hid your crushes; I, in vain, liked nerds!

Trombone for you, and piano for me.

When biking days became old memories,

your driver’s permit fulfilled all your dreams!

When driving, I proceed quite cautiously,

and you still drive like you are seventeen!

Delightful swapping stories, Delta Boy!

Lives parallel in fascinating ways.

This Mountain Girl found a decade of joy

with Delta Boy, just living out our days.

You grew up eating catfish; I ate trout.

In spite of this detail, it all worked out!


Copyright © 2023 by Cheryl Batavia


Happy 75th Birthday, Robert,

Delta Boy !

*We’ll be the same age, 74, until September 20th! Haha!

Let There Be Light/ A Clean-Energy Future

Ruins of Great Western Iron Smelting Furnace, Tennessee, 1855-1856. The furnace burned charcoal, and temperatures in the furnace reached 3,000 degrees F. Photo used by permission of the photographer.


Let There Be Light

Where there is sunshine,

let there be solar farms…

Let there be light!

Solar farm in Germany. Photo by Marcus Spiske from Unsplash

Where there is wind,

let there be turbines…

Let there be energy!

Wind Turbines. Photo by Jason Blackeye from Unsplash

Where there is flowing water,

let there be hydroelectric plants…

Let there be power!

Vintage Hydroelectric Plant, West Virginia. Photo courtesy of the photographer.

Where there are ocean waves,

let there be wave-power generation…

Let there be electricity!

Gulf of Mexico, Florida Beach. Photo by Eve Ellen Maher

When people travel,

let them drive electric cars…

Let there be zero emissions!

Charging station in the Netherlands. Photo by Fer Troulik from Unsplash

Where there is imagination,

let there be innovation…

Let there be clean energy!

Photo by Alessandro Bianchi from Unsplash

Wherever children have dreams,

let their dreams be fulfilled…

Let there be clean energy for all!

Photo by Nathan Dumlao from Unsplash


A Clean-Energy Future

Although we might like an instant, one-size-fits-all source of clean energy, it may not exist. It seems that we need to work with mother nature to develop solutions using local resources. It also seems that reducing the use of fossil fuels will be a gradual process. We will continue using some fossil fuels for quite some time.

Mine cave-ins, black lung, oils slicks, acid rain, micro-plastic waste in our food supply and our bodies, toxic petrochemicals in insecticides and household cleaning products, landfills filled with non-biodegradable plastics, water pollution, smog, and climate change are a few of the problems associated with fossil fuels. Fossil fuels threaten our environment and pose risks to our health.

Clean-energy solutions have problems too. Dams can disrupt ecosystems and cause extinction of species; solar panels require rare minerals to manufacture them and have a limited lifespan; some wind turbine designs are hazardous to birds.

Heat pumps, geothermal heating systems, and river turbines are examples of clean- energy systems that may be useful in certain locations. Older river turbines were hazardous to fish, but newer designs don’t harm them.

Electric cars, one important clean energy measure, currently have a top range of 300-500 miles. There are insufficient numbers of charging stations at the present time. Batteries have been manufactured with toxic ingredients that present disposal problems. Scientists are currently developing batteries with cheaper, non-toxic chemicals and greater range between charges. A too-rapid increase in the number of electric vehicles would overburden energy grids.

Atomic power plants, which use nuclear fission, are subject to melt-downs and radiation leaks. Fission has great destructive potential. Nuclear fusion holds promise for the future as a safer alternative, if it can ever be made practical.

There are no simple fixes. Solving our problems requires dedication and commitment. It requires cooperation among many professions and among all nations.

Atomic Power Plant, Belgium. Photo by Frederic Paulussen from Unsplash

*My thanks to Robert Snyder for consulting on this article. There are many YouTube videos about developments in clean-energy technologies.


Copyright © 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

The Egg & Antipoverty

Photo by Tengyart from Unsplash.


A “news junkie” I am not…well, not quite. I do follow the news on a regular basis because I believe democracy depends on informed citizens.

Recently, I watched a documentary about US President, Lyndon B. Johnson. I was unfamiliar with the unflattering stories that had circulated about his political career. As I watched, I remembered learning about the “Great Society” and the “War on Poverty” initiatives that marked his presidency.

As a sixteen-year-old girl with no TV and no newspaper at home, I just knew that Johnson’s “Great Society”sounded great to me! I probably learned about the “War on Poverty” from reading Life Magazine in the school library. The poem I wrote may have been inspired by a photo in that magazine…I can’t quite remember.

The Egg & Antipoverty

A child sits on broken, creaking stairs

eating an egg,

a child who needs more new life

than an egg.

Today, I am alarmed as I watch news about book-banning and political censorship of curriculums, even at the college level, in my state of Florida and in several other states. Teachers are leaving the profession because of restrictions imposed on them, and there is a growing teacher shortage in Florida.

A knowledge of history and science is essential in a democracy, in spite of the desires of some politicians to sweep inconvenient facts and ideas under a rug. Yes, today’s students need more new life than an egg! Curriculum should be age-appropriate, but access to, and free discussion of, information and ideas is crucial to developing independent thought. Education is the birthright of all students in a democracy! “Knowledge is Power.”


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

Fatigue; Time to Take a Break!

Sleeping Hippo. Photo by Tim De Pauw from Unsplash.


Fatigue

Refusing to stop,

counting on powering through;

just keep on going!

What arrogance to ignore

the body’s urgent message!

Living in a fog,

forgetful, disorganized,

zero energy.

What arrogance to ignore

the body’s urgent message!


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia


Time to Take a Break!

Stress, medical and dental appointments, health issues…all easily resolved problems, I believe. It’s time to pause and regroup.

I will miss my blogging friends every day. ❤

Beautiful Ukraine

Kyiv, Ukraine. Photo by Chaiwat Hanpitakpong from Unsplash.

For Eugenia’s Moonwashed Weekly Prompt #143-5/16/23, Picturesque

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Beautiful Ukraine

Pastoral landscapes,

wheatfields and sunflowers…

Exquisite Ukraine!

Picturesque small towns,

lovingly tended gardens…

Enchanting Ukraine!

Modern cityscapes,

historic landmarks, green space…

Elegant Ukraine!

Brave Ukrainians

enduring, working, defending

Beloved Ukraine!

Envisioning peace,

time to restore and rebuild

Beautiful Ukraine!


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia

War Image. Drone Photo above Lutsk, Volyn, Oblast, Ukraine. Photo by Ivan Serediuk from Unsplash

Beach, Odessa, Ukraine. Photo by Sasha Mattveeva from Unsplash.

Honeybees Pollinating Sunflowers, Ukraine. Photo by Audrius Sutkus from Unsplash.

Historic Opera House, Lviv, Ukraine. Photo by Pavlo from Pixabay.

Ukrainian Child in a Field of Poppies. Photo by Viktor Kondratiuk from Pixabay.

Work Songs

Know any Sea Shanties, anyone? Tall ship, Europa, in Nova Scotia, Canada. Photo by Wayne Linton from Pixabay.


Written for Colleen M. Chesebro’s

TankaTuesday Weekly #Poetry Challenge No.320, 5/15/23

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Work Songs

lonesome drudgery

comraderie of work songs

brings exuberance


Copyright© 2023 by Cheryl Batavia


About Work Songs

Work songs are traditional songs found in many cultures that coordinate the efforts of people working together. They also provide relief from monotony and form bonds among workers.

I first became aware of work songs as a nine-year old piano student learning to play “The Volga Boatmen.” As a young adult working in a clothing factory and in a printing company, I heard other workers singing along with Loretta Lynne and Elvis Presley as they did their routine work.

Here are some examples of work songs:

Wellerman (Sea Shanty)

Nathan Evans

Pick a Bale of Cotton

Lead Belly

The Song of the Volga Boatmen

(in English and Russian, with beautiful paintings)

Paul Robeson