Netting in Lemon Bay, Reblog

Left to Right: Gulf of Mexico, Manasota Key, Lemon Bay. Photo by Jin from Adobe Stock

Netting in Lemon Bay

For several hours that morning, in blazing sun,

our group waded in the knee-deep muck

of Lemon Bay, netting sea creatures

and collecting them in pails. Then we gathered

on shore with the naturalist to observe and

discuss the animals we had found:

juvenile flounder, shrimp, tiny crabs…

I left a bit early because I had a lunch date

with a man who lived nearby.

We had been communicating on Plenty of Fish

and were meeting for the first time.

Woops! There were no showers at the park!

I cleaned up the best I could with a wet towel.

Still sweaty on top and muddy on the bottom,

I went to meet my date at Chili’s.

We met in the parking lot with a hug

and a kiss on the cheek, not my usual handshake.

We talked for two hours over chicken fajitas.

Time flew by! I felt I had known him forever!

…That’s how I met my soul mate!

Reprinted from Life in Inspiring Places


Copyright© 2019 by Cheryl Batavia


Robert and I have been together for eleven very happy years since that meeting at Chili’s. I was sixty-five, and he was sixty-six when we met. My husband had been dead for over twelve years before I started dating, and I had nearly given up on ever finding a soul mate… someone with whom I have so much in common!

Favorite Photos

Flowers from Robert and Robert’s hat on my dining table soon after we met.

Favorite Photos

Some photos retain their magic,

their power to evoke memories

and affections awakened

some time ago.

Robert, I never thought

I would love a man

who wore his hat indoors

or went to bed with his socks on.

This photo reminds me

how quickly I changed my mind

when I met you!

Maybe it was the flowers…

and a thousand other things!

I’ll love you always.


Copyright © 2026 by Cheryl Batavia

This photo was taken in 2014. The poem was one of the first written for Robert and made into a card.

When the Sun Shines

Photo by Nikita Tikhomirov from Unsplash

When the Sun Shines

When the sun shines, I love you.

When the rain falls, I love you.

When the wind blows, I love you.

In the moonlight, I love you.

In the starlight, I love you.

In the dark of night, I love you.

In the hurricanes of life, you are there.

When all of nature smiles, you are there.

Every moment of my life is better

because you are there!


Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️

Love to our soulmates,

to friends and family,

to fellow bloggers.

Love and Joy to the world!

Wonders: Poems about Love and Relationships by Cheryl Batavia

Book Review by Yolanda Nicholson

Cheryl and Robert at Mary Margaret’s Tea Room, Arcadia, Florida


Wonders: Poems about Love and Relationships was my first book. It is a tribute to the wonderful, though very different, men I have known and loved. There is a chapter of poems written for each individual man.

If I were to rate Wonders, I would probably give it a G, or maybe PG13.

It is a book without photos. One day, I would like to see it become an audiobook.

Happy Birthday, Robert!


Photo by stephan-gogov-TcAigacJxHA from Unsplash


Copyright© 2025 by Cheryl Batavia


To my Fellow Bloggers,

Robert will be 77 on September 20, 2025. I wanted to share Robert’s homemade birthday card with you. Though we are going through some challenges, health-wise and otherwise, we are OK and expect to come out alright. I am working on a lot of projects.

When life slows down again, I hope to be more active on the blog. I am looking forward to that day! 💕🌈 💕 I miss you!

Warm Regards,

Cheryl

Coming Soon!

Walking Hand-in-Hand

Photo by Roman Kraft from Unsplash

Walking Hand-in-Hand

Walking hand-in-hand…

Even a short stroll with you

means the world to me!


Copyright© 2025 by Cheryl Batavia


Robert’s 2024 Birthday Poem

Last September, recently discharged from the hospital and recovering from quintuple bypass heart surgery, I had very limited energy. Robert’s birthday was in a few days. I always write poems and make cards for him for his birthday and Valentine’s Day. “Well, I think I can write a haiku, at least!” I decided.

My recovery includes a daily walking program. Because of Robert’s COPD, post-polio, heart problems, and other issues, Robert can now only walk short distances. Many times he walks a short way with me, and I continue the walk on my own.

Having Robert walk with me brings me happiness and encouragement. This is the poem I wrote for Robert’s birthday and printed out on white copy paper…no handmade card this time. I put it on his computer keyboard where he would find it when he woke.

I was hospitalized again in November to stent two of the grafts that had become blocked. By Valentine’s Day, though, a longer poem and a handmade card were back! Robert keeps all of the cards I make in his office. He even kept this haiku printed out on plain white paper…and I keep all the cards he has ever given me!